As writer Hanson O’Haver pointed out, there’s a pretty simple way to figure out if a joke is offensive: if the punchline is the victim, the joke is probably bad.
But pranks take this one step further. They not only laugh at the victim, pranks create a victim for the sole purpose of laughing at them.
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So when Reddit user u/Small-Raspberry-6561 saw her son targeting his sister, she couldn’t just let it slide. After one particularly mean toilet incident, the woman made him clean up the mess, and her little one finally started to understand that his actions have consequences.
However, the woman’s husband thought it was bad parenting and confronted her about it.
This mom found out her son pulled a nasty prank on his sister, making her pee all over the bathroom
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So the woman insisted he had to clean the mess, but the boy tried to talk himself out of it
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Pranks can cross the line into abuse
Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D., who is a AMHCA Diplomate and clinical specialist in child and adolescent counseling, recognizes that social media has given rise to increasingly higher stakes in pranking, chasing views and money.
Because of this, “Spouses, partners, family members, and friends have been subject to pranks that involve gruesome scenes, physical harm, and humiliation,” Sarkis wrote. “When some victims confronted the people perpetrating the prank, their concerns were brushed off or told they needed to ‘lighten up.’”
These situations can seriously disrupt relationships, making the victims of pranks question whether they have the right to be upset, especially if the perpetrator doesn’t take the victim’s concerns seriously. But they shouldn’t.
“You have a right not to be pranked,” Sarkis highlighted. “You have the right to be treated with kindness and respect. You also have the right to speak out when you feel a sense of injustice or have witnessed an injustice towards another person.”
“Pranks may qualify as a form of emotional or psychological abuse. Pranks can be how a person attempts to gain control over their partner, family members, or friends. Pranks can invoke fear and give the perpetrator a feeling of power over others,” she added.
By sending her family a clear message that pranks are not tolerated in their household, the author of the Reddit post is trying to foster an inclusive environment for everyone involved.
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Natural consequences help kids learn to make good choices
As a parent, it’s tempting to just take away your child’s iPad whenever for they misbehave. But if you do so, your kid won’t learn the powerful lessons that natural consequences can teach.
Essentially, natural consequences are simply what happens as a result of a person’s actions, without much intervention by an outside party.
By employing this approach when a child makes a mistake, the parent lets the child learn by doing, truly experiencing the fruits of their labors, Aliza Pressman, PhD, an assistant clinical professor of pediatrics and psychologist at Mount Sinai Kravis Children’s Hospital in New York City, explained.
This can mean that they end up chilly, overtired, without their homework, late, or any number of other unpleasant things. They may feel disappointed or frustrated.
Natural consequences are things that happen automatically as a result of a child’s action or inaction without any purposeful behavior on the adult’s part, and if the natural consequence is unwanted or unpleasant, the child has the opportunity to learn from the experience and do things differently the next time to avoid the unpleasant experience.
So let’s hope “Dax” walks away from this whole thing with a better understanding of why pranks aren’t cool.
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As the story went viral, the original poster (OP) provided more information on the whole ordeal
And people unanimously said she did nothing wrong
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