Kids say the darndest things. But have you seen what they write and do?! There’s a tiny but brilliant online community on Reddit called r/KidsWhoMeanWell that collects hilarious examples of just how direct and blunt kids can be even when they have the best intentions.

We’ve collected some of the most hilarious, bizarre, and honest things that children have ever written and done at school and at home to share with you. Scroll down to check out the funniest pics, and hopefully, it’ll remind you of how much courage we all used to have when we were little. Just think for a moment how everyone would react to you if you wrote or did things like that now.

Bored Panda wanted to learn more about honesty, authenticity, and kindness in communication, so we reached out to Andrea Bonior, Ph.D. the host of the mental health advice podcast ‘Baggage Check’ and the bestselling author of ‘Detox Your Thoughts.’ Read on for our interview with her.

#1 Dream Big, Dr. King

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#2 Gee, Thanks Kid!

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#3 Stand Up For What You Believe In

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Dr. Bonior, the host of the ‘Baggage Check’ podcast and the author of ‘Detox Your Thoughts,’ shared some of her thoughts on the extent to which people ought to be honest in communicating with others.

“I think there’s a lot of beauty in honesty, especially when compared to the overly edited and curated images that we tend to portray on social media. It’s a breath of fresh air to imagine children who have not yet learned to think of themselves as a brand, just speaking their true feelings,” she told Bored Panda. However, she noted that, at the same time, parents also want their children to be compassionate and empathetic members of society.

#4 Hope You Make It!

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#5 Little Kids Are The Best

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#6 This Isn’t Exactly What We Meant When We Told Him That He Could Look Up Puppy Training Tips On Youtube

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“So there is a balance of taking other people’s feelings into account. People who live most authentically and honestly and also are putting good into the world can find this balance—by speaking the truth with kindness, by considering how they would want to hear certain things themselves, and by knowing that not all thoughts are meant to be spoken out loud if they don’t help someone gain insight,” Dr. Bonior explained where the limits between honesty and kindness lie.

We were also curious about the point at which we start from saying and writing everything we mean to filtering our thoughts. Dr. Bonior said that she believes society tends to “breed honesty out of kids” relatively young.

#7 So Loving

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#8 Lucky

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#9 Thanks Mom

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“We may punish them for saying something inappropriate or embarrassing, even though their intent was never to harm someone. Or we may inadvertently teach them that not getting caught is more important than not doing something, which also teaches them to live in more dishonest ways,” she explained to Bored Panda.

“Instead, I think it would be more helpful to have useful conversations about how to speak our truth and ways that are helpful and still considerate, and how to not feel that we have to be perfect—even on social media—all the time.”

#10 Some Wise Words For Mrs. Clark!

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#11 My 6 Year Old Drew Her Dad, Me, Herself And Her Little Brother….. We’re Snorkelling

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#12 No Pie For Me, Thanks

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The r/KidsWhoMeanWell online community was founded all the way back in mid-February of 2018. Though it hasn’t grown much beyond the 1.5k members who follow the subreddit, the photos shared in the group are rip-roaringly hilarious!

It’s a peek back into our own childhoods where many of us were far more direct in how we communicated. We’d say and write exactly what was on our minds, without thinking about the consequences of how it’d affect others. Fun(ny)? Absolutely!

The r/KidsWhoMeanWell really puts into perspective how we communicate with others. Most of you Pandas reading this will probably agree that we used to be far more straightforward and direct in how we spoke and wrote. When we were kids, we didn’t exactly filter our thoughts all that much! If something popped into our minds, we’d express it. For better or for worse.

#13 It’s Just Meth

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#14 Actual Letter From Kid

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#15 It’s The Thought That Counts

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However, as time went on and we grew and matured, we began to self-censor our thoughts more and more. Instead of saying exactly what it is we’d love to shout and write, we’d run everything through a filter to make it more appealing to whatever audience might be listening to us. We all became a blend of diplomats, corporate climbers, and politicians, whatever our actual studies or professions. Our reputations and survival depend on it.

Look, whether we like it or not, words can hurt. Some of us are resilient to criticism, others crumble at the slightest hint of bluntness. So it’s up to all of us to find a way to express our honest thoughts while also making the person we’re speaking to feel like they don’t have to get offended or defensive.

It’s a fine balance between being completely open and presenting our opinions in a dignified, diplomatic way. Bluntness isn’t always the best way to communicate, even if it’s 100% how we feel. You have to think about the consequences your words will have and have enough empathy to recognize how the people around you will feel when they hear or read them.

#16 It’s The Thought That Counts… Right? Happy Birthday!

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#17 That Escalated Quickly

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#18 My Friend’s Son Had To Write An Apology Note To A Classmate

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As kids, we’re not responsible for all of our actions (yet), but we develop new skills and learn more about how the world and society function very quickly. As adults, we have to shoulder more and more burdens. We can’t excuse immature behavior because we’re no longer munchkins running around the playground.

It sounds absolutely wonderful to live in a world where everyone’s free to speak their mind. Politeness would quickly go out the window because every single person you meet will tell you what they think upfront, and expect the same from you. However, that’s simply not how the world works (and it won’t be, unless the planet devolves into some weird AI-and-microchip-controlled dystopia).

There’s a massive difference in how others react to the very same ideas we propose, just when you switch around how you express them. Tone, body language, politeness, all of these things matter.

#19 Letters Kids Have Sent To Soldiers (The Motherlode)

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#20 Happy Valentines Mom!

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#21 A Letter From My Daughter

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Let’s say that you’re a super serious adult with a super serious job. Now, something’s gone wrong. Maybe you don’t get along with your coworker, have to work tons of overtime, or someone sneaky keeps stealing your lunch from the shared fridge. Broadly speaking, you have two ways to react. You can complain, whine, and criticize everyone around you. Or you can provide some constructive feedback. The former is a ton of fun and we’re guilty of it, but it’s the latter that’ll actually solve the problem.

Generally speaking, complaining is pretty much a one-way street because the focus is on negativity. Venting without providing any ideas on how to improve something probably won’t lead to any changes. Meanwhile, constructive feedback is actually about having a dialogue and resolving any conflicts that you might have with all the other super serious adults doing their super serious jobs. It takes a lot more effort (and, frankly, courage), but it’s the mature approach.

#22 This Kid Is Going Places

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#23 Dad Is The Best Cook

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#24 Serial Killer In The Making

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The best way to see if you’re complaining or doing some constructive communication is to consider whether you think about your goals before you start speaking or writing. What exactly do you hope to achieve by addressing issue X or problem Y? By providing some potential solutions, you’re showing that you’re open to compromise and are a problem solver, not just there to say how you feel.

#25 Asked My Daughter To Write An Apology Letter

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#26 You And Half The Block, Kid

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#27 When Your Notebook Is Lost, Then You Find It

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Bosses don’t like having to listen to problems, nor do they value people who aren’t independent or resourceful. When you take the time to think about how you’ll communicate with them, you’re setting yourself up for success. And though it’d be wonderful to just write them an honest note in crayon or pencil, sadly, we no longer have the luxury of acting like kids. We can, however, enjoy kids’ honesty, like the members of r/KidsWhoMeanWell do!

#28 (X-Posting From R/Kidsarefuckingstupid On The Suggestion Of A Member Of This Sub). Bless Her, She Tried. Seems A Bit Confused On The Veteran vs. Veterinarian Thing, Though

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#29 Gotta Help The Family Out

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#30 Roses Are Red

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#31 I Mean… She’s Not Wrong?

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#32 Thank You For Protecting Our Country

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#33 Can I Pet Your Titties?

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#34 Suddenly Penis

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#35 I’m Fine

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#36 I Felt Bad For The Guy ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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#37 See You When You Die

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#38 Hallmark’s Next Top Card Writer

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#39 I Love You So Much

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#40 My Nephew’s First Attempt At A Long Neck Dinosaur

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#41 So A Couple Years Back My Then Five Year Old Son Proudly Announced He Just Finished Cleaning His Room. As He Bound Out The Door To Play I Decided You See Just How Well He Did. Obviously He Nailed It

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#42 A Get Well Card My 6 Year Old Cousin Made For Her Friend Who Was Sick In Hospital

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#43 My 13 Year Old Sons “Lifeline”…. His Dad Had A Little Girl 6 Months Ago And Supposedly He Has A New Step Dad And Step Sister. I’m Not Married, Just Dating. He’s A Mess

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#44 9 Year Olds Say The Darndest Things And Most Awesome Things!! Translation: In The Future I See Myself Being A: Preacher At Brandon’s Chapel Baptist. I Would Like To Live: In The Great Smoky Mountains. I Will Drive A: 1969 Dodge Charger And Weld The Doors. I Will Be Sure To Always: Do Stunts!

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#45 My Daughter Writing Her Favorite Pastries

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