Nowadays, when over half of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck, providing for a family is an extremely challenging task. Paying for housing, food, clothing and childcare adds up quickly, and parents are fed-up with constantly having to cut back.
Mother and TikToker Paige Turner is especially tired of older generations telling her to live within her means, as she’s raising kids in a very different world than they grew up in. Below, you’ll find a video that Paige recently shared online detailing her frustrations, as well as some of the replies viewers have left her.
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This mom has been open with her family’s struggle to afford child care
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And because of that, she’s been inundated with unsolicited financial advice from wealthy Boomers
“If one more Boomer tells me to live within my means when I tell them that I struggle to pay for child care because of how insanely expensive it is, and they tell me just to cut back on things that are not necessities, I might lose my mind.
Because I’m sitting here, right? I’m sitting here, and I’m looking at all my neighbors, they’re all boomers because they just haven’t sold their houses yet.”
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“The one right here that I’m staring at, in their driveway, three cars. There’s two of them. So three cars, one of which is an old vintage, beautiful car. And an airplane. An airplane in their driveway.
So I don’t know. Like, I’ve never asked for an airplane. I’m just asking for affordable daycare.”
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“And if I look at the house next to them, there’s four cars in their driveway, and a big boat. A big boat. Yeah.
And so, I’m being told to limit my expectations, to live within my means, to stop trying to have so much materialistic stuff and just focus on what’s important like my kids and my home, which is what I’m trying to do.
Literally, like, we don’t really do vacations, we don’t do much as we have to pay for daycare. Yet I’m the problem, not the people with airplanes in their driveway.”
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You can see Paige’s full video right here
@sheisapaigeturner Boomers are out here owning airplanes for fun and I am being told to live within my means because I want affordable daycare. #boomersvsmillennials #millennialfinance #childcare #daycare #millennialmoms ♬ original sound – Paige
Child care is a massive financial burden for parents in the US
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If you’ve always dreamed of being a mother or father, starting a family might be the most exciting thing you could possibly imagine. But along with the joy of having a little one running around showing you how fascinating our world truly is comes the financial aspect of having kids. According to Parents.com, raising a child in the United States now costs an average of $20,813 per year.
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And one of the biggest financial burdens of having kids, at least during the first few years of their lives, is paying for child care. Axios reports that child care costs in the US have risen 32% since 2019, which has pushed many parents out of the workforce, as they’ve had to opt to stay home with their little ones rather than focus on their careers.
A study from Care.com found that over half of parents in the US spend more than 20% of their household income on child care, and nearly three quarters report that over 10% of their income goes straight to child care. This is extremely concerning for parents, as 43% say it’s much harder to find quality child care today than it was a year ago.
Many have already had to cut back or abandon their careers to ensure their kids are taken care of
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Paying for expensive care puts a massive burden on parents and forces many to make sacrifices for their families. 31% say they’ve had to take on a second job, and 26% say they’ve had to reduce hours at work to ensure their kids are taken care of. A quarter of parents have changed jobs altogether, and 21% have left the workforce entirely to avoid paying for child care.
While parents were once most concerned about funding their children’s higher education, it now seems that simply getting them through their youngest years is a similar financial burden. The First Five Years Fund reports that 58% of families say they plan to spend $10,000 on child care this year, which is actually slightly more than the average cost of in-state college tuition.
Because of the exorbitant cost of childcare, 45% of parents say they’ve had to cut back on their food budgets, and 41% say they’ve had to spend less on clothing as well. And apparently, the pandemic only exacerbated this issue, as 15,856 child care providers in the US have closed their doors since 2020. Prior to that, 30% of Americans were already living in “child care deserts,” with only one spot available for every three kids who need care.
Millennials are raising children in a much different and more expensive world than their parents did
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It can be difficult for older generations to understand just how much times have changed since they were raising their kids, but according to USA Today, it appears that millennials are worse off than their parents in a variety of ways. Back in the day, 17% of boomers moved into prestigious careers after graduating college, such as law or medicine, but only 7% of millennials did the same.
By age 35, 62% of boomers owned homes, while only 49% of millennials could say the same. Approximately 14% of millennials also had negative net worth, while only 8.7% of baby boomers were in debt. Today, boomers own over half of all of the wealth in the United States, and millennials own only 5.7%. The Great Recession, the pandemic, inflation and many other factors have made life challenging for millennials. That’s not to say that everything was easy for older generations, but it’s definitely important for them to understand how the world has changed before giving advice like “just cut back” to struggling parents.
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Viewers joined in on the conversation, noting how difficult it is to keep cutting back
However, some defended the Boomers that were trying to give Paige advice
And others pointed out that low wages and inflation are contributing factors as well
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