It’s no secret that too many of us tend to put presents before Christmas. It’s not that what we all care about is money; on the contrary, it’s one of the ways in our consumerist society to show love. Being conditioned about buying things for our loved ones by adverts on TV and media from as early as October, it’s no surprise that our minds are set for some pretty big expectations in what we want to get and to give for Christmas.
But this story posted on r/AskReddit is the opposite of that. It comes from a woman who told her husband she’d like a little Christmas gift. And before we all jump and say, this is not how you do it, the author added: “I did want a gift from my husband, mainly for the symbolism, like the thought of getting a Christmas gift.”
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The woman also said that her husband “doesn’t have much money because he’s very reluctant to work and skips going to his part-time job most of the time, so I told him it could be something small, like a little stuffed animal or a keychain or even a Christmas card.”
As small as they may be, the author’s wishes didn’t sit well with her husband and she’s now asking for some advice from people online.
One woman has recently shared how she told her husband she’d like a symbolic Christmas gift only to be called materialistic
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Bored Panda reached out to the author of this story who asked for advice on the r/AskReddit community. The woman told us she received so many comments that she couldn’t read them all. “It was helpful because it made me see things objectively instead of feeling guilty, which I often do in my marriage,” she said.
Speaking of the whole situation, the author commented: “I now know that my husband is being unfair, but I’m unsure if I’m mentally ready to face the truth right now, so for now, I’m going to just try to accept things as they are for the sake of peace.”
For anyone who’d ever find themselves in a similar position, the woman said she’d tell them “they are NOT materialistic and want a symbol of care. I would tell them to take gentle care of themself.”
Many people said the author was NTA and she had to run away from her husband for behaving like this
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After receiving so many comments and advice the post author added an update:
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